“We desperately need your help!
We’re a Southern family being ruthlessly persecuted by
governmental forces due to my wife’s faith (she’s
an open Witch). A neighbor filed 60 dismissed complaints against
us with local cops. Tired of being constantly called out by this
bigot, the cops turned matters over to Department of Social Services.
Angered
that we maintained our innocence, DSS got the cops to file serious
legal charges against us, and threatened to keep our R.O.T.C.,
17 year-old until he reached the age of his majority. These no-win,
Witch-hunt tactics finally succeeded in forcing us to sign over
custody to a family member. We’ve been forced to flee to
try to clear our names. Our family’s ruined. What can we
do?!
To many in the alternative spiritual community, the crisis
call above may read like bad movie fiction or paranoid delusion.
Most would be shocked to learn that persecution against Pagans
and Wiccans is rampant, and that punitive laws and prejudiced
organizations enable this national travesty on a daily basis.
I’ve received thousands of such poignant pleas for over 15
years, largely because of my own personal experiences with such
horror made me become an expert in using creative means to win
against mind-boggling bigotry. I was put to rout in 2001 because
my 17 and a half year-old daughter didn’t respond to any
migraine treatments except cannabis. As a Witch R.N. who values
herbs’ efficacy in such conditions, I monitored her usage.
DSS took umbrage with this and, because I refused to tell them
where I’d safely stashed her, shackled me hand-and-foot in
jail all Valentine’s day without bread or water, then dogged
us both across the country for months while we ran under assumed
names. (Turns out the worker who led our hot pursuit had been an
underling of mine years before that I’d chastised for failure
to take adequate care of elderly patients. When my name came across
her desk, she saw her chance to get even).
Modern methods of Witch persecution are little changed from
those used during centuries of The Burning Times. At any time
a landlord, neighbor, employer, or other authority can and may
wreak havoc in Witches’ lives: Landlords raise rent; neighbors file complaints;
employers fire workers; cops confiscate tools (“This athamé is
a concealed weapon!”); prison officials deny inmates’ spiritual
freedoms (“Wicca ain't no recognized religion!”).
On it goes in a million shameful ways a day…
But don’t
Witches have legal recourse? The truth is that then, as today,
no one wants to believe they can be so easily railroaded — no
one can mean them such ill, right? Few people, much less generally
non-litigious Witches, actually know their basic rights, much less
afford a lawyer to ensure them. So, like good trusting citizens,
they feel sure that if they just plead their case, it will soon
be dropped and life will return to normal. Sadly, such conditioned
naiveté is their undoing.
Witches’ protestations of innocence or insistence on their
legal rights are pejoratively labeled and used against them as
proof of guilt (“This person is uncooperative, is obstructing
justice, is in denial”, etc.).
The most horrific form of religious persecution is the Department
of Social Services’ national program to wrest Pagan kids
from their parents.
How does DSS go unchecked and enabled by silent consent to ruin
Witch families? Let me count the ways… DSS comes out to
investigate an anonymous complaint, initially sending a 20-something
year-old woman with no kids of her own who feigns sympathy with
the parents’ plight. The parents speak freely, thinking
they have nothing to fear from the government they support with
their taxes. The social worker furiously jots down words into
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Secret DSS meetings are held wherein
the family is slotted into sinister categories from which they
can’t
escape. Their parenting style is denounced. One Pagan S.C. family
had 3 kids taken away for allowing them to stay up all night
to watch a meteor shower; when the kids claimed fatigue the next
day, the mother let them stay home from school; DSS ruled that
the parents encouraged truancy by allowing their kids to participate
in a religious event the school board didn’t officially
recognize. After working with me, they got their kids back!
Older, outright bigoted DSS workers in groups of two shortly
follow. They invariably insist the couple undergo parenting classes.
The parents acquiesce under protest in hopes this concession
will make the problem disappear. Led by DSS workers, the sessions
are frequent, costly, and humiliating. While the parents assume
their words are protected like doctor-patient confidentiality,
in actuality everything they say is recorded and used against
them later in court. DSS drags out the sessions for months, even
years — pushing the
parents to give up or explode in exasperation. When they do,
check mate: DSS files for custody and reigns supreme in a kangaroo
system called “family court”. Family court is a star-chamber
procedure with its own rules. Records are sealed, all manner
of hearsay admitted, and every effort made to ‘protect’ the
child from publicity (so persecuted parents are prevented from
going public to the press). The judge and guardian ad lidems
have worked together for years and chummily chit chat to make
the parents feel doomed. The case concludes in agonizing choices:
Sign over custody to a family member and, because you didn’t
terminate your parental rights, you must pay monthly child support
even though you don’t get visitation rights; if you refuse,
the judge allows DSS to adopt-out your kid. Determined by DSS
to be an unfit parent, scarred by the brutally unfair legal process,
and in debt up to your ears to your lawyer, you end up virtually
catatonic with grief.
“We’ve gotten no help from the Pagan Community,
except you.” For years I’ve been bewildered by Pagans’ penchant
to distance themselves when their kind is in trouble. Are they
suffering from some collective unconscious repulsion response
due to scarring from The Burning Times? Are they lazy, blame-the-victim
mean folks, or just feel overwhelmed with the pain of knowing
and difficulty in defending such incessant cases? Contrary to
the claims of several Pagan anti-defamation organizations, I
seem to be the only one actually defending persecuted Pagans
nationwide. I demand proof of claims but when the case is egregious,
I work painstakingly for months and even years to see justice
done. Ultimately, I’ve
become convinced that Pagans’ reluctance to help their
kind in need is due to their failure to grasp the polarity inherent
in the basic tenets of Witchcraft. They don’t want to recognize
the harm being caused upon fellow Pagans on a massive scale.
Equally, they seem bent on misinterpreting the original intent
of the Law of Three-fold Return (not a constraint against Witches,
but rather a warning). Hurt Witches and we’ll defend ourselves
thrice over.
And where does such appalling Pagan apathy leave couples such
as the one I’m currently helping? “Like most 17 year-olds,
now that our son is out of DSS’ clutches, he doesn’t
seem to care much what we’re still going through… We’re
being pursued by a psycho cop like the one Ray Liotta played in
Unlawful Entry, who’s taken it personally that he brought
charges against us that we’re avoiding. Recently he got so
close to catching us that my wife and I had to split up in hopes
of one of us staying free… I had to literally crawl through
a swamp until I could reunite with her… Truly horrifying!”
More on this couple’s travails next month.
Lady
Passion is co-author of The Goodly Spellbook:
Olde Spells For Modern Problems and High Priestess of Coven Oldenwilde in Asheville,
NC. She may be reached via: www.oldenwilde.org
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