Leap Year and A Woman’s Fancy Turns to Love!
by Sherry Henderson

Leap year was originally initiated by Julius Caesar. The early Romans had a 355 day calendar and to keep festivals occurring around the same season each year a 22 or 23 day month was created every other year. Julius Caesar’s astronomers created the 365 day calendar. The actual calculation was done by the astrologer, Sosigenes. In the new calendar, every fourth year following the 28th day of February) one day was added. This created “leap year”.
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These calculations did not work out exactly right, because we would gain a day every 400 years so, in order to correct this discrepancy. On the century years and only on those years divisible by 400 are actually leap years. For example, the year 1900 was not a leap year, but 2000 was. This keeps the 365-day calendar operable. Otherwise we would gain 3 days every 400 years.

The reason for leap year is to keep the solar year in time with the sidereal day. This keeps our holidays and our seasons in alignment with our calendar. In the northern hemisphere, winter is in late December through early March. Spring occurs in late March and so on.

People are always anxious to give special times like this special traditions and leap year is no exception. There is much superstition and cultural tradition connected to “leap year”. For example, February 29 is the one day of the four year period that it is acceptable for the woman to propose matrimony to the man.

When the rules of courtship were stricter, women were only allowed to propose on one day every four years. That day was February 29th. This tradition was started in 5th century Ireland when St. Bridget complained to St. Patrick about women having to wait for so long for a man to propose. So, according to legend, St. Patrick said the yearning females could propose on this one day in February during the Leap Year. In 1288, we have documentation of the first date of this practice.

Scotland passed a law that allowed women to propose marriage to the man of their choice in that year. They also made it law that any man who declined a proposal in a Leap Year must pay a fine. The fine could be anything from a kiss to a silk dress.

This leap day is often confused with Sadie Hawkins Day, which was coined by cartoonist, Al Capp, creator of the comic strip ‘Lil Abner. This date was first introduced by Capp in 1937. This was a tradition that was celebrated in “Dogpatch” on November 15 of each year when “the homeliest gal in the hills”, Sadie Hawkins became weary with waiting for a beau to come – a – courtin’, so she implored her powerful father, Hekzebiah Hawkins, a prominent resident of Dogpatch to decree a root race in which the unmarried girls could pursue the most eligible bachelors of Dogpatch and marry the man she caught. Whether this idea came from the early European traditions can only be a point of speculation.

A survey conducted in 2003 by Korbel Champagne found that one in three Americans know a woman who has proposed marriage to a man. They also found that 70% of Americans agree that it’s socially acceptable for women to propose marriage to men, almost 50% of all women would propose to their significant other, and 80% of men would accept a proposal from their significant other.

Interestingly, in ancient Rome, February was also the feast of Lupercalis, when boys drew names of girls to honor Juno, and couples were formed for the year. Lupercalia, the Roman feast that took place on February 15th, was a feast of “lovemaking and licentiousness”.

Since young men could avoid joining the Roman army by being married, Claudius outlawed marriage temporarily. However, Valentine the priest secretly conducted marriages. Legend has it that once he was caught and sentenced to death, young visitors came to him in jail, giving “him flowers and slipping him notes expressing shared feelings lauding love over war.” (Was this the original hippie – flower child revolution?) Rumors that he fell in love with his jailer’s daughter and signed a note “from your Valentine” were added on, later.

Valentine was stoned and decapitated on February 14 in A.D. 269-the day devoted to old Roman love lotteries. All three catholic saints named Valentinus have their festival on February 14th, making it impossible to know which Valentine is THE Saint Valentine.

The shift from martyr to romantic celebration is due in part to Chaucer’s poem “Parliament of Fowls” which discusses the mating rituals of birds on Valentine’s day.

In the 1600s and 1700s in Britain, Valentine’s Day had quite a few folk traditions: people drew lots to choose their valentine.

Valentine’s Day was also a time for fortunetelling and omens. Young women went into churchyards at midnight looking for omens, or placed hemp seed or bay leaves under their pillows, hoping for prophetic dreams that would give hints about the identity of their future husbands.

I find it odd that the time of the most aggressive romantic traditions should be found in the middle of winter. This coupled with the fact that February 14 occurs during the time of Aquarius, the detached and unromantic sign of the zodiac, and February 29 falls in the sign of Pisces, one of the least aggressive and more spiritual signs, puzzles me. it doesn’t fit somehow. Yet what better time to snuggle by a warm fire and nest in a lair until the spring thaws bring the fresh new beginnings of spring.

resources:
http://manolobrides.com/2005/11/30taking-matrimonial-bliss-into-our-own-hands
http://meaningofgifts.com/holiday/
valentines/index.html
http://leapyearday.com/
February29isNOTSadieHawkinsDay.htm

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Leap Year Ladies Quiz

1. Have you ever waited by the telephone hoping for an invitation?
a. Yes – How many times?
b. Yes – But only once, I move on to the next suitor.
c. No – I have a life - I’m not about hanging around!

2. Would you call the object of your affections and ask him out for a first date?
a. No Way! – I would be too afraid of rejection.
b. No - I would call him, but only after he has asked me out at least once.
c. Yes – I’m liberated and there should be no boundaries like this.

3. How often are you the aggressor?
a. Never – I’m too shy.
b. Sometimes – It depends on how the man reacts.
c. Often – When men are too slow to make a move, I see no point in wasting time.

4. Do you feel comfortable taking a man out to dinner and picking up the tab?
a. No Way – The man invites me and he pays the bill.
b. Sometimes – If I’m in a committed relationship I’ll do that sometimes.
c. Often – If I do the inviting, it’s only good etiquette for me to pay.

5. Would you ask a man to move in with you?
a. No – What if he said no?
b. Maybe – It would depend upon the situation
c. Sure – It’s my place, he needs an invitation since I’m not even giving up my digs.

6. Would you ask your boyfriend to marry you?
a. No way – He needs to be on one knee & propose.
b. Hummm – I think it should be a mutual decision between two people. Nobody should have to ask.
c. Sure – If he can’t get the nerve, I sure can.

Mostly A’s – You’re an old fashioned girl or at least very shy. You will probably spend too much time waiting for your lover to take action. Get some fortitude and start taking risks. He’ll probably appreciate the fact that he doesn’t have to do all the work.

Mostly B’s – You’re pretty balanced. It seems that you approach relationships on an equal footing with your male partner. This could be a marriage made in heaven if you have a lover who doesn’t feel the need to rule the roost.

Mostly C’s – You go girl. Nothing can stand in your way except possibly a lover who wants to “wear the pants”. You’re a real woman who needs a real man to live up to her expectations.