True Confessions©
By Lauralyn Bellamy, MA, MDiv, cert. Dreamcoach®

First confession: Nick Nolte can be my spiritual coach anytime!

The thought popped into my mind as I sat in an almost empty theater watching the first showing of the day of, “PEACEFUL WARRIOR,” an adaptation of Dan Millman’s bestseller, Way of the Peaceful Warrior. I’m not a fan of the 66-year old actor; meaning I wouldn’t go to a movie simply because he’s in it.

No, what put me in that theater seat was my curiosity about a movie that seemed to be marketed in the same way as the “sleeper” hit, “What the [Bleep] Do We Know?” I received a much-forwarded email from a trusted friend that promised me FREE movie passes (courtesy of Best Buy) for the OPENING weekend only (Mar.30) simply by clicking on, www.peacefulwarriormovie.com

So I clicked. Then I clicked on the movie’s trailer and saw a white bearded sage in the guise of an auto mechanic with Nolte’s unmistakable voice engaging a smug Joe College-type in a provocative philosophical dialogue. The kid, “Dan” (played by tall, dark and handsome Scott Mechlowicz) sarcastically dubs him “Socrates” and storms out of the quickie mart into the night. “Socrates” ambles out and sits on a bench by the door. Dan looks over his shoulder at him; the sage’s face betrays no emotion, only attention. He takes a few more steps but feels compelled to check on the guy, turns and he’s gone. Dan looks around. Socrates seemingly has vanished. Then he looks up. Socrates is now standing on the roof with the same inscrutable regard. I was hooked.

Second confession: I haven’t read Millman’s book, a re-casting of the archetypal hero’s quest for the American New Age culture, which has been in print continuously since its initial publication in 1980 and revision in 2000. Sure, I’ve heard of it and Millman, but I was put off by the coyness of calling it “an autobiographical novel.” I mean, it’s autobiography, meaning non-fiction, or a novel, right? The former investigative reporter in me was irked by this hide-and-seek publicity.

Third confession: I pigged out on those free passes. I went to the first show of the day Friday, Saturday and Sunday! Saturday, I brought a friend and fellow life coach with me. We enjoyed discussing it over lunch. But she was surprised that I was willing to see it twice. Little did she know...

There was something about the script that was, well, hokey. Nolte’s character speaks in fortune cookie proverbs, it’s true. But his signature bass voice is a mesmerizing shape-shifter, uncoiling from a slow growl into a ribbon of extra-fine sandpaper, gently but persistently wearing down my resistance. I was willing to endure moments of discomfort with the clichéd sound bytes to stay in his presence.

Apparently the reviewer for the New York Times felt the same way as he struggled to pan the film as “blatantly ludicrous” but had to admit that, ”...the seminal fact of a "Peaceful Warrior" is that, for all its manifest corniness, this is an achingly sincere and supremely unembarrassed effort to transform an audience for the good. Its heart is very much in the right place -… a place that movies all but ignore‘ [NYT, July 14, 2006]

What drew me back to the always near-empty theater Saturday and Sunday mornings? From the opening scene, I surrendered to the film’s exhilarating commitment to enchantment. “Surrendered” is the operant word here: the music, sound effects and cinematography are determined to overwhelm the viewer’s critical mind and grab hold of one’s senses in a passionate, intimate embrace.

This is explicitly acknowledged by Socrates, who tells Dan: “Sometimes you have to lose your mind to come to your senses.”What grabbed hold of me was the truth this movie illustrates so powerfully and so many of us misunderstand when we claim to subscribe to Teillard de Chardin’s observation that, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, but spiritual beings having a human experience.”

Too many of us who recognize that our identity includes the fact of our spiritual nature choose to limit our recognition of what defines our humanity to the realm of the mind. We treat our bodies as mind-less suits that we put on when we wake up every morning and escape from in our sleep; as vehicles for transporting us from one place to another; instruments of communication; and the deep recesses from which undisciplined sensations and messy emotions erupt and must be kept in check.

The American legacy of not only the Protestant revolution that led to a puritanical shame of the human body, but the resurgence of some forms of gnosticism and mysticism in the last forty years, is to award the highest value of humanity to our intellects, while tolerating the constraints of being “in” our physical bodies.

The epidemic of morbid obesity growing in our country is accurately reflected in places where the prevailing theology would lead one to expect otherwise. The Church counts gluttony among the seven deadly sins, and in spite of the fact that St. Paul emphatically taught the earliest Christians: "...the immoral man sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body." [1 Corinthians 6: 18-20]

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