Editor’s note: Perhaps your Valentine experience
was less than satisfactory, or your personal and professional relationships
are not what you would like. Lael has some excellent advice for changing
those “button pushing” scenarios into positive experiences.
Relationships are a major part of our lives and can influence our emotional state. We
have all been involved in relationships that made us later wonder, “Whatever
possessed me to become involved with that person in the first place?” Releasing
and healing negative memories and emotions concerning them is vital to our emotional
health. A few years ago I learned a technique that has helped me to heal
those memories and stay out of stressful relationships.
Because our spirits inhabit a body that lives on a planet with dense gravity,
we sometimes feel attraction to people as a sexual energy. This is the
manner in which we feel a spirit saying hello to us – like shaking hands
on the physical level. However, just because spirits say hello to us does
not mean wehave to get involved with them on any level.
When you first encounter someone that you are attracted to, center yourself and
go into an altered state. Then ask your higher self when and where you have known
this being. You will then be fed information in the form of words, feelings
and/or sometimes images about past relationships and situations with the person. Next,
call on your higher spiritual authority to come in to heal and forgive all the
past events and any karma, contracts or agreements that were made between the
person and you on any and all levels and dimensions.
When you feel the healing is over, mentally return to the present. In every
instance, I have noticed that the attraction that I felt to the person has been
greatly diminished or is completely gone. |
If there is any attraction left, then you know
you will be able to have a healthy and positive relationship with
the person. This technique is easier if you meditate or can
easily go to a natural altered state of consciousness. If not, you
will be able to do it with some practice.
We all have relationships that we just can’t seem to get over,
even though it may have been some time since we were actively involved
with the person. A technique that can help you release and heal
the relationship once and for all is past life regression. If
you have any emotion attached to the person it means there is an
unresolved issue on some level between the two of you.
For many years I could not emotionally release a certain relationship. Finally,
I had a past life regression concerning the person. I learned valuable
information about an unresolved issue between us that I had never
been consciously aware of. I was able to heal the situation
and completely resolve any feelings I had about the person. After
the healing, all emotional attachment I had to the person was gone. I
never thought of the person in the same way again. This left me free
to use all my energy in healthy current relationships.
Both of the above techniques can be used for relationships other
than romantic ones. You can change relationships with co-workers,
bosses, and relatives through these techniques.
Lael Wilson is a
professional hypnotherapist
and sees clients for past life regression
at The Inner Space psychic fair on alternate odd numbered months
(3,7,11).
She is scheduled for
Sunday, March 19. |
