Enhance Your Social Life
by Charles Wm Skillas, PhD, DD, DCH, CI
Everybody would like to have a great
social life and have interesting people look upon them with favor. In
many cases, however, people suffer a very restricted social life
not because their social graces are lacking or they are not meeting
the right kind of people, but because they are not clear in themselves. They
go to bars, dances, or meetings and see attractive people with
whom they would like to have a relationship, but when they try
to get close to the object of their desire, they meet with utter
defeat. They go home to an empty house or apartment feeling
rejected and rotten. They curl up with a book or watch a TV
show, feeling defeated and say to themselves that they just have
to try harder next time. The next time comes and the same
thing happens again, then, again and again. After a while they
may give up looking for the right relationship and settle into
books and TV and other mind numbing actions so they don’t
have to think about their rejection depression.
Do you know that if you are not clear so that the life force
energy, chi, can flow through your body unimpeded, you can become
almost invisible? Ninja’s train themselves to suck
in their energy fields so that they can be invisible amidst a group
of people. People notice other people and form first impressions
of them from encountering their energy fields. It is a very subtle
thing and yet so powerful. Walk into a room where there is
a scared and nervous person. You probably won’t even
notice him. If he is at a dance, he is probably a wallflower. He
stays close to the walls for protection so that no one will notice
him, especially the ones he really wants to notice him. This protects
him from rejection, which is a very hard thing for him to bear.
But another thing is also happening
to him. If his chi life force energy is blocked, not only
is he invisible, but he exudes what little energy he has as a
field of crap. Our energy field is composed of whatever
energies are dominant in us. If the energies dominating
us are the energies of demons who want to destroy us or earthbound
spirits of dead people or soul-mind fragment ego states of people
who have fragmented under the pressure of anger or guilt or sadness
or shame…think what you are putting out to those around
you if they even notice you because you are so blocked. Often,
when I am getting rid of these entity attachments, a foul smell
will even permeate the room where I am working. So, you
may not only be mostly invisible but you are also putting out
negative energies, and you may even smell bad. How can
you expect that the relationship you want will ever happen under
these adverse circumstances? All of this applies to both
men and women. Crap is no respecter of gender.
Clear up your act and get yourself cleared of all the negative
stuff within you. Not only is it making you very undesirable,
but it is also destroying your health. See a good hypnotherapist
who can clear all the crap off you and begin to enjoy being accepted
and healthy. Your life will change positively in a multitude
of ways.
Dr. Skillas is a Board Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist
and Certified National Guild of Hypnotists (NGH) Hypnotherapy Instructor.
Call 404-252-4540 for details.
